Saturday, November 21, 2009

Baby making and abandonment...How can moms walk away? What about the children they leave behind?

 This is not bitching!
I know plenty of women that have had children and walked away from them. I know a woman named Sarah. She had four girls all by different men. She left her first daughter with my brother who she had been engaged to at the time. Then a different man and left that daughter with the grandmother. She had two more daughters after that and they too are with their fathers. I don't see her much anymore but her first daughter which whom my brother raised is doing great. What a spectacular woman she has become. She is 21.

It used to be the fathers failing to help support these children and now it has turned a page. Women are abandoning their responsibilities now. I suppose it all could have started with the men. When they didn't support their children it gave the mothers no choice other than to give up their children. Maybe? Is this a new trend for women? What happens to the children? Abandonment issue? Let me know your thoughts on this bitch.

3 comments:

  1. I would never be able to do it. I heard of addict mothers doing it, but that is the only circumstances I heard of.

    Secretia

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  2. I have known a couple of women that have done this. And it was not for the reason that the dad's were not there to help. The men took and raised the children. The women just went out and partied. i could see if the women were young teenagers and had one chlid and gave them up for adoption. I dont understand them leaving
    the children just to go on with their lives. I have given a child up for adoption when i was young and that was almost 30 years ago and it still bothers me....

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  3. Anonymous, thank you for your comment. I will think of it often.

    Laurie at BitchingRead

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