Monday, October 5, 2009

A good marriage is a union of two good forgivers!

Let's talk about what you could forgive or not forgive?
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9 comments:

  1. AnonymousOctober 5, 2009 at 6:46 PM

    I forgave my husband for being a drunk for 20 years. I don't think he would have stopped then but he got a DUI! He wouldn't stop for me or our children. I think that is what I had to forgive him for!

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  2. MichaelOctober 5, 2009 at 9:58 PM

    You have presented this perfectly Laurie...too many times we get caught up trying to figure out if something is forgivable. Everything is forgivable, the challenge is in the forgiving or fixing whatever is in our way to get there.

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  3. Laurie BitchingReadOctober 7, 2009 at 7:50 PM

    I am with that with you and I am feeling our plight, Michael! People are spending too many moments, hours, days, years or even eternities fighting forgiveness. Come on world life is short! I have lived all my life with a family (on both my mom's and dad's side) of grudge holding, narcissistic, and unforgiving people. Come on people, and you know who I am talking to, they are dead already! Why do you still hate? To the bloggers reading this; look just because you were wronged does not mean you should live wrong. Forgiveness is another word for LOVE. Now read between the lines. You can forgive and forget. Do not live your life with distain in your heart for you will not LIVE YOUR LIFE! BitchingRead

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  4. AnonymousOctober 11, 2009 at 6:11 PM

    i find it easier to forgive someone else than i do forgiving myself...

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  5. Laurie BitchingReadOctober 11, 2009 at 6:21 PM

    Hurray! What a deep bitching comment! It is about time someone to enlighten others! I agree. I can forgive others for their dirty deeds but, when it comes to mine I am blinded to forgiving myself. I am responsible for my recklessness in life. My decision are just that mine! Self disclosure is a bitching start my friend. Keep bitching along :)

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  6. AnonymousOctober 11, 2009 at 6:30 PM

    when you find a cure for this please let me know...... everyone shoudl forgive themselves but it is sooooo hard to do...

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  7. Laurie BitchingReadOctober 11, 2009 at 6:36 PM

    Alright, my bitching friend! I think I might have the cure or at least hold off the disease temporarily. Whatever it is that you need to forgive yourself for; try writing yourself a letter reminding yourself that you are only human!

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  8. AnonymousOctober 11, 2009 at 6:47 PM

    time will tell all... I believe it will all happen soon... once out in the open, i will be able to forgive myself. Just tired of all the secrets.

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  9. Laurie BitchingReadOctober 11, 2009 at 7:13 PM

    Oh, I see. Secrets...You are shadowed by them until the time for disclosure. Secrets and Time would tend to be a nuisances and road blocks to your forgiving of yourself. I get it. Secrets can be dangerous to us and others proceed with caution. When you leave the shadow behind you it sounds like you will be on a bitching road to forgiveness.

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